Michigan Surrogate Laschell's Side

[SurroOf5]

Originally Posted by Ace

As far as the fund, I would prefer no one give to it that doesn't feel completely comfortable with it. The fund is not something I am running, and I have no access to it. If you are not 100% comfortable with it, then be done with it.

Like I've said before, what I've donated so far is exactly that a donation!! And anything I add to it is exactly that, a donation!! Meaning I donated it and I do NOT want it back!! Even IF you don't need it all for the legal fees, use it for YOUR precious babies once you have them back in YOUR arms

And those that don't want to donate to it, they don't have too. And there is absolutely NO reason for anyone to be ugly about it either. Amy you should NOT at all feel bad for what people are doing to help you, they wouldn't do it if they didn't want to.

I can only HOPE & PRAY that IF I was ever in a bad situation that I'd have the ladies behind me here that are supporting you! Because they can put up an AWESOME fight!

[mrsK]

So, she just stated that the reason she took their babies was because of Amy's medical condition.

I asked if she would have still had kids if she had a mental illness and she said, "If it was something that I could have passed down to my kids that was dangerous Yes I wouldnt be thinking of myself."

So it's settled then, right? Amy can't pass her medical condition down to the babies as they're not biologically hers!

Now she can give the babies back, right?

[Looking2BGSinOR]

Originally Posted by Jmommybear

Fix the quotes! Kari, do we need to review SMO posting 101? ((((HUGS))))


I am curious about this too. Did you know her prior? Or just PM her? How well do you know her?

Hey if you notice almost all of my quoting has worked today, but there is a random one that freaks out and rebels. Cause the last few I quoted worked just fine.

And um the surro isn't a premium member so she can't PM her. And I'm pretty sure both are too new to even email through the board via profiles.

[Jmommybear]

Originally Posted by Looking2BGSinOR

Hey if you notice almost all of my quoting has worked today, but there is a random one that freaks out and rebels. Cause the last few I quoted worked just fine.

And um the surro isn't a premium member so she can't PM her. And I'm pretty sure both are too new to even email through the board via profiles.

hmmmm...I see...
good point, no offense, Goddess, but these are good questions. Where are you?

[Jmommybear]

Post #13
Laschell Baker wrote12 minutes ago
My reasons for wanting to take them back were purely that I was not comfortable that she has a pscyological disorder, thats my reason. I never knew about the other issues either including the legal stuff, but that was not my reason at all. If i would have known up front about the medical disorder up front I never would have felt comforable working with them. Not making judgement I'm glad she is working on changing her life, however I did not want to release the babies in their forever care and never know if something ever went wrong. I was totally ready to go through with everything untill I found out this important issue. We did not use an agency. Funny that so many of the surrogates take sides so quickly when not everything is out about the story. I will not STOOP to their level and air ALL THE DIRT and things I and my family have delbt with during this pregnancy.
Kelly I respect your option and I am glad you are intellegent enough to realize you have not seen all the FACTS in this case. You are truely one of a kind.
I did not perform a criminal background on them, never thought I needed to . My biiiig mistake there , but again I thought they were upfront and honest from the start.
Chantele, yes I would have been responsible if something happened to them while they were in their custody, maybe not legally but emotionally for the rest of my life.

wow....

[mrsK]

Originally Posted by Jmommybear

wow....

I'm Chantele, by the way.

[Jmommybear]

Okay, Laschell, answer a question for me. If you had a medical condition that you didn't choose to have, would you have had your tubes tied before you had any of your kids?

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Post #15
Laschell Baker wrote13 minutes ago
If it was something that I could have passed down to my kids that was dangerous Yes I wouldnt be thinking of myself.

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Post #16
Chantele Klophaus (St. Louis, MO) wrote12 minutes ago
Well, there! It's solved!!! Since they're not Amy's eggs that the babies came from, she can't pass it down to the babies!

Now you can give their babies back!

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Post #17
Laschell Baker wrote6 minutes ago
Not quite Still feel I did the right thing. My heart is content with my decision. The babies are in excellent care where I dont have to worry .

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Post #18
Chantele Klophaus (St. Louis, MO) wrote3 minutes ago
It's too bad that what you did will eventually lead to their hearts breaking too when Amy and Scott do get them back.

Just so you know, I think that you're a horrible person. So, uh, have a great one!

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Post #19
Laschell Baker wrote2 minutes ago
You are one to judge me without knowing me, takes courage honestly. Not hurt by you thinking that I am a horrible person I know who I am and so do the people surrounding me. My heart was to help not to decieve them like they did to me.

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Post #20
Chantele Klophaus (St. Louis, MO) wrote4 minutes ago
You didn't help anyone in the situation except yourself. They weren't your babies, so you shouldn't have tried to play God like you did.

In the end if you think what you did was right, then you're very diluted and you should see someone about it.

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Post #21
Laschell Baker wrote34 seconds ago
Then maybe you should offer to carry for them

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interesting...
Figure I better post it here before more messages get deleted like the other one.

[Jmommybear]

Originally Posted by mrsK

I'm Chantele, by the way.

Your posts will be gone soon.

[ShannonA]

I have not read all the replies, but I do feel the need to post the following in light of what seems to be a huge amount of threads lately, as well as fundraising going on.


I need to make it clear that the posts,threads, opinions and fundraising taking place regarding this situation are not directly those of this website, it's owner or it's moderators, nor is it a reflection of the views and/or opinions of this website, it's owner or the moderators. As stated in our TOS, we will not be held liable for others opinions and/or actions.

http://www.surromomsonline.com/disclaim.htm



Please keep in mind that what is said on the Internet for the world to see, can quite possibly do just as much harm to a potential legal case as it could help, as I have seen happen in the past.

[tiredofalltheli]

I have not read any responses yet and I have only read your story and have yet to read what the IM and IF had said however, your story rings way similar to those out there.

Personally not to offend other surrogates, But I think you are TRASH!!!! How dare you keep someones babies and their dreams of being parents on your own BS assumptions????????

If she had a conviction and she changed what is the problem?? I bet you took their money though! And lets be honest here after a year you are telling me you had no idea what kind of people they were? I find your story to have way to many holes in it.

I believe that you were a surrogate and you were looking for a free ride finacially! The whole I am a Christian thing is BS and you making yourself out to be a wonderful person. PLEASE I HAVE A SURROGATE THAT TOOK ME FOR A RIDE AND YOU SOUND JUST LIKE HER!!!! FEEL SORRY FOR ME.

She has been caught Breaking court order, Lying and frauding and is being investigated and YOU DO NOT HAVE MY SYMPATHY.

YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN????? THAN I TELL YOU DO WHAT IS RIGHT AND YOU [b]GIVE THOSE BABIES TO THEIR PARENTS. YOU OR YOUR HUSBAND ARE NOT THE PARENTS TO THESE BABIES[b]

It seems to me this is becoming the norm that IPs are always fighting for what was made for their family These people spent 9 months waiting for these babies and you robbed them of their joy. YOU ARE NOT GOD AND YOU CHRISTIAN LADY SHOULD NOT JUDGE THEM YOU SHOULD BE GIVING THOSE BABIES BACK!!!!!!!!

I pray that you never do surrogacy again because those whom do it to really help a family have to deal with bad publicity from people like you.

I will pray that the IPs get those babies and should they go and fight you and go National I am all for it. I think it is time for those who want to be breaching surrogates be put into the lime light where they seem to want to be. So maybe we will see your face on National TV and than I pray any other Ips out their remember your name and face and they all stay clear of you!!!!

YOU ARE NOT THEIR MOTHER! YOU ARE NOTHING MORE THAN A BREACHING SURROGATE WHO YET AGAIN IS PUTTING INNOCENT CHILDREN IN THE MIDDLE OF A BUNCH OF BS AND DOING NOTHING BUT HURTING A FAMILY BY YOUR OWN GREED AND SELFISHNESS!

[Jmommybear]

Originally Posted by ShannonA

I have not read all the replies, but I do feel the need to post the following in light of what seems to be a huge amount of threads lately, as well as fundraising going on.


I need to make it clear that the posts,threads, opinions and fundraising taking place regarding this situation are not directly those of this website, it's owner or it's moderators, nor is it a reflection of the views and/or opinions of this website, it's owner or the moderators. As stated in our TOS, we will not be held liable for others opinions and/or actions.

http://www.surromomsonline.com/disclaim.htm



Please keep in mind that what is said on the Internet for the world to see, can quite possibly do just as much harm to a potential legal case as it could help, as I have seen happen in the past.

Thank you
And I'm sure this is for you. I'm sorry for that
And it is true what you say about the internet stuff. But since this will take Amy and Scott's chances from zero to maybe possible, we have to carry on.

[Ace]

Laschell writes that 'her heart wasn't to deceive them they they did me.'

- I didn't deceive anyone. You STOLE my children! You talk about being judged...........you are the one laying judgement on me! "Thou shalt not judge or thou shalt be judged" Since you are judging me, now you are being judged. Scripture is correct in EVERY WAY!

If say you feel content and at peace..........only a horrible person would steal everything in every way from another person and feel at peace about it.

[Mom2Boys]

Originally Posted by Jmommybear

interesting...
Figure I better post it here before more messages get deleted like the other one.

Posting something from another website (I suppose) complete with last names...

[tiredofalltheli]

Originally Posted by Ace

Laschell writes that 'her heart wasn't to deceive them they they did me.'

- I didn't deceive anyone. You STOLE my children! You talk about being judged...........you are the one laying judgement on me! "Thou shalt not judge or thou shalt be judged" Since you are judging me, now you are being judged. Scripture is correct in EVERY WAY!

If say you feel content and at peace..........only a horrible person would steal everything in every way from another person and feel at peace about it.

I must say I am so sorry for what happened to you. I am still fighting for my daughter but we do have 50/50 custody at the moment.

I agree with you she did STEAL YOUR CHILDREN AND SHE SHOULD GIVE THEM BACK!!!!!!!! SHE IS A HORRIBLE PERSON WHO STOLE YOUR DREAMS FROM YOU! SHE ONLY FEELS PEACE BECAUSE SHE IS A DECIEVING LIAR

[mervl]

Shannon makes a good point, that has been brought up more than once recently, that this thread and others like it may end up harming either party in the future when it comes to a courtroom (or similar).

I understand people are sensitive, but some of you (Ace.. sorry.. just sayin') should maybe watch what you post a bit more. :/ I'd hate to see anyone get hurt based on something they posted when they were upset. :/

[Jmommybear]

Originally Posted by Ace

Laschell writes that 'her heart wasn't to deceive them they they did me.'

- I didn't deceive anyone. You STOLE my children! You talk about being judged...........you are the one laying judgement on me! "Thou shalt not judge or thou shalt be judged" Since you are judging me, now you are being judged. Scripture is correct in EVERY WAY!

If say you feel content and at peace..........only a horrible person would steal everything in every way from another person and feel at peace about it.

Don't let her get to you, Sweetie. Like Shannon just said everything can be used. You can edit your posts for 10 minutes after, by the way, by clicking "edit" in the corner. Be careful.

[Jmommybear]

Originally Posted by Mom2Boys

Posting something from another website (I suppose) complete with last names...

Her posts are her choice and on the internet for everyone to see.

Shannon, please let me know if my post was out of line, so I know for next time.

[Mom2Boys]

Originally Posted by Ace

Laschell writes that 'her heart wasn't to deceive them they they did me.'

- I didn't deceive anyone. You STOLE my children! You talk about being judged...........you are the one laying judgement on me! "Thou shalt not judge or thou shalt be judged" Since you are judging me, now you are being judged. Scripture is correct in EVERY WAY!

If say you feel content and at peace..........only a horrible person would steal everything in every way from another person and feel at peace about it.

Honestly, though... If hadn't told me about your mental health history and past criminal history, *I* would feel deceived. Because surrogacy is a very personal thing - where A LOT of trust is in order. If you couldn't tell me, up front, about something that happened in your past - and let me make my own decision about it - then I would feel deceived and lied to. EVEN IF I DIDN'T ASK FOR THAT INFORMATION.

[mrsK]

Originally Posted by Mom2Boys

Posting something from another website (I suppose) complete with last names...

I'd gladly release my last name for a good cause.

[Mom2Boys]

Originally Posted by Jmommybear

Her posts are her choice and on the internet for everyone to see.

Shannon, please let me know if my post was out of line, so I know for next time.

YOu are right... I don't know where I got the idea that we weren't supposed to bring things from other boards, to this board.