I'm sorry u all spend so much time on here that u think I'm someone else. I did refrain from weed long enough to pass a drug test. Who ever reviews my post is not posting them. I got a false positive. Do the research on the OTC MEDS that can cause a false positive. Luckly my agency doesn't think like u all & I re-tested today :p came back all clear & we are still proceeding!!!! I'm grateful my IPs & I have built a trusting relationship. I ate a edible back in dec. I'm not saying it was the right thing nor am i saying legalize weed. People make mistakes & thankfully I have been forgive for mine & praised for my honesty. I will do whatever IPs ask. Submit to random drug test at my own expense because i know i messed up. But there is still no reason to ATTACK. some if the women came off so viciously. I don't thing weed is great nor am I a "druggie" but on thr medical side meds derived from thc have benifits. So I can be called a druggie (which i thought was rude) but if I say go crawl in a hole I'm rude?! Huh?! What I did was a mistake!!! One said that. I was only looking for advice on how tell my IPs!!!!!!! I am in no way trying to cheapen surros or surrogacy. I didn't get into this for $$. I was also not trying to cause sny drama on the sight. The reason I signed up was to be make to have an outlet for questions. I will not be posting any more as i feel run off.