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    'I'm in love with my grandson and we're having a baby'
    When 72-year-old Pearl met her grandson, little did she realise she'd soon be 'pregnant' with his child

    Pearl Carter is positively glowing with joy. She has a handsome new boyfriend, is enjoying an active sex life after many years of celibacy and, amazingly, is preparing to become a mother again.

    But the retired grandmother isn't carrying the baby herself. She and her young lover have spent a staggering $54,000 hiring a surrogate to help them with their dreams of having a child.

    What makes Pearl's decision to become a mum again even more shocking is that her new boyfriend is her biological grandson, 26-year-old Phil Bailey.

    Phil is the son of Pearl's daughter Lynette Bailey, and the pair is braving public horror and even prison by breaking one of the last taboos – incest.

    However, the pair makes no apologies for their controversial plan to start their own family.

    'I'm not interested in anyone else's opinion,' Pearl says. 'I am in love with Phil and he's in love with me. Soon I'll be holding my son or daughter in my arms and Phil will be the proud dad'.

    Phil adds, 'I love Pearl with all my heart. I've always been attracted to older women and I think Pearl is gorgeous. Now I'm going to be a dad and I can't wait.

    'Yes, we get laughed at and bullied when we go out and kiss in public but we don't care. You can't help who you fall for.'

    Pearl was 18 when she fell pregnant with daughter Lynette. She was living with her Catholic parents in Indiana and they insisted she give the baby away, so as not to bring the family into disrepute.

    They organised a private adoption and Pearl never again saw her baby girl.

    Pearl went on to marry, but she never had any more children. Instead she searched for her lost daughter until finally giving up hope 15 years ago.

    Finding each other

    In 1983, Pearl's daughter Lynette had a baby of her own, who she named Phil. She raised him as a single mother.

    'My mother told me she was adopted when I was 18, and at the same time she told me she'd been diagnosed with brain cancer,' Phil says. 'I was devastated.'

    Phil nursed his mum for six months before she died. It was then he decided to track down his grandmother. It took three years before he found an address for Pearl and wrote to her.

    'I was stunned to get his letter,' says Pearl, who was now single. 'My heart jumped that I'd be re-united with a grandson. I wrote back immediately and included my phone number.'

    When Phil phoned Pearl, the pair admits they were both rather nervous. Pearl told Phil about being forced to give up Lynette for adoption, and Phil told Pearl about his mum dying of cancer.

    'We both cried but kept talking for three hours,' she says. 'When he emailed me a photo, I thought what a handsome and sexy man he was before pinching myself – he was my grandson!'

    Confused, Pearl talked to a friend, who told her about an article she'd read on Genetic Sexual Attraction (GSA), which occurs when close relatives meet as adults and are attracted to each other.

    'I could now understand my feelings and realise they weren't wrong,' Pearl says.

    In 2006, Phil met his grandmother for the first time.

    'From the first moment that I saw him, I knew we would never have a grandmother-grandson relationship,' Pearl remembers happily. 'For the first time in years I felt sexually alive.'

    Phil admits that he had the same feelings towards Pearl.

    'I wanted to kiss her there and then,' he says. 'My feelings were overwhelming.'

    The pair spent the first week shopping, bowling and eating out. During the second week, giggly on wine after a night out, Pearl decided she wasn't going to deny her feelings anymore.

    Unexpected feelings

    'I called Phil into my bedroom, sat him on the bed, and then I leant over and kissed him,' Pearl says.

    'I expected rejection but instead he kissed me back.'

    Pearl then explained to Phil what she'd discovered about GSA.

    'I was thrilled and excited,' Phil says. 'I could be with Pearl and it was OK because she'd never raised me or been in my life.'

    That night, grandmother and grandson became lovers.

    'Making love to Pearl was a real eye-opener. It was love combined with all this sexual tension that had been building up,' Phil openly explains.

    Phil, a carpenter, agreed to live with Pearl and get a job with a local building firm.

    'Living with Phil as my life partner has been amazing. He cooks and cleans and we make love three times a week. We can't keep our hands off each other.'

    Twelve months ago, Phil made the shocking admission that he wanted a child. Pearl told him she was desperate for a baby as well, but it was one wish that she couldn't fulfil as she'd already gone through menopause.

    The determined pair then decided to use Pearl's retirement money to find a surrogate mother and buy a donor egg to inseminate with Phil's sperm. They placed an ad asking for an open-minded surrogate, and Roxanne Campbell applied. The three met up a few times and hit it off.



    'Initially I was shocked,' says Roxanne on learning the couple were related. 'But they're a brilliant pair and I saw how much they loved each other. I know the baby will be loved too.'

    The couple sees 30-year-old Roxanne once a month and accompany her for scans, with Pearl playing the part of a pal or the baby's grandmother.

    'I am just so happy,' Pearl says.

    'I am finally going to be a mum and not forced to give up my child. Phil's going to be a great dad. I never in a million years thought at 72 I'd be "pregnant" and in love with my grandson. I make no apologies and I believe God's given me a second chance.'

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    OK thats the Nasties thing ever.

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    Aside from being a 72 year old "mother" I guess is no big deal b/c it's like having a single IF really....

    The incest part is what gets me :sick:

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    You have GOT to be kidding me.

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    I find it hard to be open minded about incest in any situation. I think it's a violation of everything. :( This disgusts me in so many ways.

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    Is this for real????
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    I have NO words......

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    I didn't even read it all....yuck! :barf:

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    That is just foul.:sick:

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    http://nz.lifestyle.yahoo.com/new-id...having-a-baby/

    here's the link to the original article with pictures. I read it from something a friend had posted on FB. It grosses me out.

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    That is heartbreaking and disgusting.

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    Yeah I just threw up in my mouth.

    And who the h3ll is this surrogate? I vote we beat the tar out of her.

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    :yikes: Um.....I cannot even form a proper reply. That's just wrong on so many levels. :yikes:

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    wow... eww
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    So wait...the child will also be his aunt or uncle, right? And he/she will be the grandmother's great grand child.

    Um...yeah.:Crazy:

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    Somehow the picture makes the story even more ludicrous.

    Also... that poor baby. Dad is also his/her great uncle... Mom is great-grandma... so the kid is also his own uncle too, right? :spin:
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    Where are the authorities here? Isn't incest illegal in like, every state? Has someone checked granny's mental condition? What about lover boy here? He clearly needs to be seeing some kind of therapist. He loses his mom to cancer and then starts banging his grandma? Yeah sorry but thats some pretty severe grief.

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    I am so sickened by this! WTH?! I really have no idea what to say
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    I'm My Own Grandpa

    Oh, many, many years ago
    When I was twenty-three
    I was married to a widow
    Who was pretty as can be
    This widow had a grown-up daughter
    Who had hair of red
    My father fell in love with her
    And soon the two were wed

    This made my dad my son-in-law
    And changed my very life
    For my daughter was my mother
    'Cause she was my father's wife
    To complicate the matter
    Though it really brought me joy
    I soon became the father
    Of a bouncing baby boy

    This little baby then became
    A brother-in-law to Dad
    And so became my uncle
    Though it made me very sad
    For if he was my uncle
    Then that also made him brother
    Of the widow's grown-up daughter
    WHo of course is my step-mother

    Chorus
    I'm my own grandpa
    I'm my own grandpa
    It sounds funny I know
    But it really is so
    Oh, I'm my own grandpa

    My father's wife then had a son
    Who kept them on the run
    And he became my grandchild
    For he was my daughter's son
    My wife is now my mother's mother
    And it makes me blue
    Because although she is my wife
    She's my grandmother too

    Now if my wife is my grandmother
    Then I'm her grandchild
    And every time I think of it
    It nearly drives me wild
    For now I have become
    The strangest case you ever saw
    As husband of my grandma
    I am my own grandpa

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