I have to agree with Wendy. It's not an easy thing to do. It is so worth it tho. I felt like I was given just what I needed in those difficult few weeks after the baby was born. My IF's just seemed to know what I needed and the gave it to me.
Lots and I mean LOTS of pics. Especially in the beginning. Just call us and let us know how things are going. Check on us and let us know you are thinking about us. You may think you are bothering us, but you're not. We love to hear from you.
I'm glad my IF's were really great about doing these things because I don't think I would have asked for them.
I was invited to visit when Bella was just a month or so old and spent all kinds of time with her. Holding her, feeding her, spending time with the guys and seeing how Bella fit into their family. I got to see just how much she was loved. It was just what I needed to move on with my life.
I highly reccomend doing this if it's possible. That visit was a godsend for me.