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Surrogacy and Egg Donation Q and A


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  • Q & A: Surrogacy In General

    Miscellaneous surrogacy related questions that do not fit under any of the other categories

    23. Is it just me?(male) But has a there been surrogates considered the pregnancy being done by natural means? Everything else being handled legally and medically the same way as forementioned here. What law, federal or state would considered this illegal on some basis? Also, what are any limitations/advantages by VA medical benefits in the current ways you are going through with this? And>> Has there been any consideration or approach in selective DNA/Geneology in by either doctors or IP's. - Anonymous in CA - Top

    Anonymous,

    No, I do not know of any surrogate that has used natural means. The reason behind this is that the natural means, if I understand you to mean intercourse, is a very personal and intimate experience to be shared with someone you love, not with someone you are friends with. In addition most of the surrogates are married not to mention the intended mothers married to the intended fathers. That would be quite an emotional disaster. I doubt if any state would look on such a procedure as a surrogacy. I can not tell you anything about VA medical benifits. I can tell you that if you are considering the natural means to reduce cost you could try the method that we used which was home insemination. With home insemination the intended father provides the semen and the SM inseminates herself with a sterile, needle-less syringe. It worked for us the 2nd month we tried. In our case, there was no selective DNA/Geneolgy considered, nor am I aware of it occuring in any other cases. I hope this answers your questions.

    Lynn in VA - Updated: February 13, 2000


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